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In her book "She Flies Without Wings", Mary Midkiff talks
about how the loss of remembered childhood magical
moments is recaptured when a women makes connection
with horses. Here is a quote from the chapter "Spirituality":
[In childhood] "Every new discovery -- about nature, about
the world we lived in, about our bodies and selves -- held
the potential of giving us that tingle of magic's presence.
For some of us, rituals held magic. Specific sights or smells
could evoke it, or even certain people. As children, magical
possibilities seemed limitless.....Then we grew up and the
magic faded."
[In Womanhood] "In womanhood, horses do seem
miraculous. They lift us up, fuse our bodies and motion into
theirs, and take us places we could never go alone. Our
legs become one with their legs and through their eyes we
see a natural world we may have stopped seeing long
ago.....Everytime a horsewoman mounts a horse, she feels
at least a tiny buzz of anticipation that's akin to the tingle of
enchantment. Throughout her body, the cells of her muscles
and joints and sinews sigh and smile and whisper Ah, yes!
We remember this!....Instead of speaking with the tools and
words of human communication, she speaks to the horse
through her movements and her spirit. In the exchange, she
regains her wonder, and her wonder replenishes her."
You know you are a
horse person if:
There is a little bit of hay
in the pocket of every
coat you own (including
your dress coat).
Your horse's stall is
clean, but your own
bedroom is a mess.
You haven't had a
manicure or pedicure in
months, but your horse's
feet are kept
immaculately trimmed.
You spent hours pouring
over horse magazines
and tack supply
catalogs, but haven't
read a fashion magazine
in months.
You decide to forego
purchasing a new pair of
dress shoes for yourself,
in order to buy that new
bridle and reins you saw
in the Dover tack
catalog.